I have heard many people say that " unconditional love does not exist " I rather think that those who do not believe that it exists rather not have feel it. Unconditional love in a relationship, it is everywhere, just as you like. We live in the present, not the past or the future. Why give up on someone you love in the moment for something they did yesterday ?

Unconditional love is, as I see it, a feeling of love that simply just are there, I think society has programmed us to try to find the differences rather than the similarities and see the person instead . We must dare to think about love and let go of our fears that have imprinted into our brains. 

you do not need to trace along the society and its norms to survive or be happy. It is a choice to make , either live by standards , or you do not. Or do you perhaps some kind of compromise out of the two , the choice is clear. 

What I mean by unconditional love. Is the love that I can give to others by being humble in their thinking. You might have the same values, but different lifestyles. The reason so many pairs differ are many.

One can grow apart if for example hit in the very early years , the love can end due to many factors like jealousy , infidelity, or that it has not spent time on their relationship, external factors can erode in today's society you have to be social in most media and some may have difficult to focus on the right things.

But I think the main reason is that so many people disguise themselves for the other, to be perfect for the other until it becomes unsustainable. You can not keep up the facade anymore. Becomes bitter fight over trifles.

Fears for what you 've been through before going stealth and you can be jealous , you can be egocentrerad , shy away or even leave some of these fears. So why pretend?

To dare to be yourself and not pretend to be someone else. That you are and far from perfect , that loved the partner is . Being able to love with all faults. It will be far from happy with all the partner's pages, but you love the big picture ! Is not that the point ? Not to dissemble ?

Not to go in and try to change someone. Is it too much wrong , you should not be with the person. then you do not love that person, either. Do you love that person, you do not care if they want to drink beer instead of wine with dinner or want to see the sport instead of doing anything other than what you want.

Unconditional love means to me to want to be all you can be for the other, without becoming someone else and without having to be someone else. But to willingly make sacrifices and be flexible to create communal happiness.

Since one is himself and not have to pretend so is mutual respect there actually both parties feel seen and heard . Communication flows where one dares talk about everything that feelings and fears, while having a common goal with the relationship.

Unconditional love does not mean to me then to forget or to continually put the other person first , it wants to eg go out with their friends while the other chooses to sit at home , it is ok. Unconditional love is about to have your own self-esteem and no fears, and it is built by man is allowed to trust the other person that you can be yourself with the mistakes you have.

When you love someone , you are flexible and also think of their partner's well-being because it's worth it to make it happy and go about their own sense to do only what you want for yourself. Developing itself and brings in this way in the ratio of inspiration and is not dependent on the other. You work on yourself to want to go forward and then gives back so much more of yourself. Unconditional love exists , I have experienced it 

 

The embodiment of unconditional self-love leads to the experience of omni-love or the love of ALL. This stage marks the full activation of the heart chakra and the individual fully embodies the awareness that love is the essence of everything, including him/herself. All decision making is aligned with unconditional love and omni-love, fear of not being loved vanishes and a profound sense of safety takes over the individual. Only a state of bliss can result from this and so the person is said to be drunk in higher vibrational love and ecstasy. However this does not mean that you will be in this state 24/7, rather you will have access to it whenever you focus upon it, thus allowing you to remain grounded and be able to relate to mundane activities and interactions which are part of the human experience.